Pull Girls

Right, so if you want to pull girls and you have read my previous post you will know all about the “3 second rule”.  To recap, you must approach the set (group of women/men) that contains the woman of your desire within three seconds of sighting her.  Your attraction body language whilst doing this step is vital to earn female attraction.

To use attraction body language correctly, when you approach the set, make sure your hands are out of your pockets and your head is held up high.  This will portray confidence to the group.  If you approach with your body all closed up and head down, your attraction body language is all wrong and the group will not give you the time of day, you will never pull women.

Now you have approached the set, you need to start a conversation i.e. “open” the set.  You do this with an “opener” you have already rehearsed or you can make one up on the spot (more on this in my next post).  However before you do this it’s always best to throw in a FTC (False Time Constraint) first.

So you approach from side-on (less threatening than a full frontal approach) then come out with an FTC, something like “hey, I can’t stay long as my friends will get bored without me”… then you take a step back, lean in a little to the group but with the weight on your back foot (again, facing them sideways a little) and then go into your opener to pull girls.

Why?  Well an FTC shows the set that you’re not some freaky/clingy guy who wants to hang around with them or follow them around all night, and this particular FTC portrays to the set that you are the leader/alpha male of your own group of friends (being an alpha male is so important if you want to pull girls, more on this in future posts).  You take a step back so as not to invade their personal space and avoid being creepy, you have your weight on your back foot (facing them sideways a little) so it looks like you’re ready to roll-off and leave at any point.  This is a vital piece of the attraction body language which you must show to the set.  If done correctly you’ve dramatically reduced your chances of the group ‘sending you on your way’ before you’ve even started, instead you should have gained female attraction already and they should be more than willing to hear what you have to say!

Use these attraction body language tips and the FTC and you’re finally now ready to open your first set and pull girls!!