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So you’re out in a bar trying to pull girls and you’ve spotted a hot babe, exactly how do you approach her and her friends?  It’s extremely rare that you will ever find a woman of beauty alone in a bar or club, so we refer to a group of women (or women and men) as a “set”.  So a 2-set consists of 2 people, a 4-set consists of 4 people.  The most important thing here if you want to pull women is to approach the set within 3 seconds of gaining sight of your target and start a conversation (open).  This is known as the “3 second rule” within the seduction community and is one of the most essential seduction techniques.

Why is this rule so vital?  First think about this from the woman’s perspective.  Imagine she notices you looking at her, you’re staring at her, checking her out, looking at her up and down, obviously in awe of her beauty, you take your time to gather up enough courage to walk over to her.  However, by now it’s already too late, don’t even bother approaching her, she’s seen you ogling her and has already assumed that you’re some kind of creep and pervert, desperate for her attention.  She won’t give you the time of day, trust me!

Now look at it from your own perspective, you’ve just spotted the woman of your dreams and you start thinking to yourself… wow she’s hot, she’s way out of my league, she’ll never fancy me, what shall I say to her, I bet she’s going to blow me out as soon as I open my mouth.  In other words, you end up psyching yourself out and don’t even end up approaching her in the first place, and even if you do, by now you’re a nervous wreck… this is what is referred to as “approach anxiety”, the fear of rejection which diminishes any chance of success, this is not how to pull girls!

Rejection - Pull Girls

Now imagine that you already have a few lines rehearsed so you know exactly what you’re going to say to her and her friends (the set), you see your ideal woman and approach her within 3 seconds and get the conversation rolling.  You’ve just portrayed massive confidence to the women (already gaining some female attraction) and you haven’t psyched yourself out in the process.  So exactly what do you say now that you have approached them?  I will reveal all in my next post on “openers” to help you in your quest to pull girls.

In my previous post, I briefly outlined how easy it was to pull girls using Styles’ (aka Neil Strauss) personal seduction techniques as explained in his book – The Game.  Styles’ method to pull girls involves the following steps:

1. Select A Target
2. Approach And Open
3. Demonstrate Value
4. Disarm The Obstacles
5. Isolate The Target
6. Create An Emotional Connection
7. Extract To A Seduction Location
8. Pump Buying Temperature
9. Make A Physical Connection
10. Blast Last-Minute Resistance
11. Manage Expectations

He adapted this method from The Mystery Method written by Erik Von Markovik (aka Mystery).  As you will learn from The Game, Style and Mystery were very good friends who used to live together whilst teaching and learning how to pull girls.  Between them, Mystery and Style have transformed thousands upon thousands of AFCs (Average Frustrated Chumps) into PUAs (Pickup Artists).  Many other PUGs (Pickup Gurus) have refined both their methods to create their own systems which I will be divulging soon… 

However in the meantime, I’ve had feedback from some sceptic readers of this blog who don’t believe it’s possible to learn how to pull girls. So, I’m not even going to bother to try and convince them… I’ll let ABC Primetime do it instead!!  Watch the video below which reiterates a lot of things I’ve already discussed on this blog and features both Mystery and Style.  It also tells the story of Joel, a typical AFC, who learnt how to gain female attraction and pull girls, he now has a hot girlfriend himself!

How to Pull Girls

The basic model to pull girls in it’s simplest format is to FMAC – Find them, Meet them, Attract them, and finally Close them, according to Mystery aka Erik Von Markovik master PUG and teacher of Style.  Neil Strauss broke this method down into 10 steps (i’ll break these steps down further in future articles), these are the seduction techniques you need to pull women:

10: Smile when you walk into a room (this gets you noticed by the women and portrays confidence)

Find a group with a target (the girl you want) and approach.  Always obey the three-second rule, i.e. approach instantly and without hesitation (again portraying confidence).

9: Now open the group (not just the target) with a rehearsed opener (a line to start the conversation rolling)

When engaging the group, mostly ignore the target. Focus your attention on the men in the group (if there are any), this way you become less of a threat to them and the women love you for it, to get in with the women you have to get in with the guys first.

8: Neg the target (tease her in a playful way)

Use any negs you’ve come up with or read about. Something like, “Haha, your nose wiggles when you laugh, it’s so cute…” Get her friends to notice this and laugh about it.

7: Convey personality to the entire group

Use routines such as stories, magic, anecdotes, and humor to DHV (Demonstrate Higher Value). Again pay attention to the men and the other less attractive ladies in the group.  Now the target will notice that you are the center of attention, throw some more negs her way too if you like (she will start becoming attracted to you as she’s normally used to being the center of attention and not used to people playfully teasing her).

6: Don’t step on toes, ask them, “So, how do you all know each other?”

If it turns out the target is with one of the guys, you may as well eject by politely saying “Well pleasure meeting you all, have a fun night.”

5: Isolate her away from the group by asking for permission

If she isn’t taken, say something along the lines of “I’ve kind of been alienating your friend. Alright if I speak to her for a couple of minutes?” They’ll always respond with something like “Yeah, sure. If that’s okay with her.” If you’ve done all the previous steps correctly, she won’t hesistate.

4: Start kino (touch and physical contact) by holding her hand then DHV

Isolate her by telling her you’ll show her something cool. Take her to a nearby location within the bar/club to sit down. Whilst leading her through the crowd, begin kino by holding her hand, and give it a gentle squeeze, if she squeezes back, this means she’s interested, she just gave you an IOI (Indicator of Interest).  DHV by showing her something interesting or teaching her something about herself through routines such as palm reading or talking about her star sign, something that will intrigue her and demonstrate your value to her.

3: Get her to qualify herself to you

Do this by asking what her qualities are, try this “Beauty is common but what really counts is a great energy and outlook on life. Tell me three things about yourself, besides looks, that would make a man want to get to know you better”. If she starts listing qualities, you can take this as another IOI.

2: Stop talking like you have run out of conversation for a few seconds

If she reinitiates chat by saying something like “So…?”, then this is your third IOI (as she wanted to continue the conversation with you, she’s into you).

1: Close

If you’ve seen at least three IOI’s, it’s on! Time to kiss close her, say “You want to kiss me, don’t you?”, this line works like magic, chances are she will kiss you, or she’ll say “no, you want to kiss me”, this is your cue, kiss her!  If the conditions aren’t favourable to physical intimacy, then number close instead, say something like “I got to go, but we can continue this soon”.  Ask for her number and bail out, a good method I use is to not even ask for her number but just pass her your phone and say “digits”, she’ll know what to do and you will ooze confidence.

So there you have it, in a nutshell these are the seduction techniques you need to gain female attraction and pull girls.

If you really want to pull girls, forget about corny cheesy pickup lines like “grab your coat, you’ve pulled”, they simply don’t work (well maybe for 0.01% of the population they do!).  What if I told you that there are proven seduction techniques to gain female attraction?  What if I told you that anyone can learn how to attract girls and anyone can learn how to pull girls?

Well guys, I’m here to tell you that it is possible, yes there are proven seduction techniques that will show you exactly how to get a woman, and it really doesn’t matter what you look like one little bit.

There has been a “secret underground society” (not so secret anymore!) of men who have been cracking the female attraction code and field testing these techniques for years now, they are known as Pickup Artists (or PUAs).  They have their own secret methods, techniques and acronyms!  Those who make it to PUG status (Pickup Guru) actually teach their seduction techniques to guys who pay crazy money ($2000+) to attend seminars and boot-camps where they can actually watch and learn from the masters exactly how to approach women, receive female attraction, and eventually pull women.  It doesn’t always lead to a SNL (Same Night Lay) though; sometimes these guys have to make do with a kiss close or even a number close, where the HB (Hot Babe) gives up her phone number!

Are you tired of being an AFC (Average Frustrated Chump), don’t you wish you knew how to approach girls, don’t you wish you knew how to attract girls easily and effortlessly?  Don’t you wish you had “Game”?  A self-confessed small, skinny, bald AFC turned PUG… Neil Strauss aka Style, exposes all about this secret underground pickup society in his book “The Game”.  Yes, it exposes all the tactics and methods you need to pull girls, however it’s also a compelling story at the same time that delves into all the top PUGs lives and gives true life accounts of events such as when his mate number closed Paris Hilton, yes… Paris Hilton!!  This is not just a simple “how to pull girls” manual, it’s a fascinating read and I thoroughly recommend it to all readers of this blog.

I’ll be updating this blog regularly explaining the different concepts of pickup and female attraction.  I’ll share techniques, routines, and my experiences within the pickup game.  I’ll explain methods by not only Style but also the many other PUGs and PUAs out there.  However, for you to truly gain a solid understanding on how to attract girls, and grasp the main principles then “The Game” is an absolute must have for any man wanting to pull girls.