Pull Girls

So you’re out in a bar trying to pull girls and you’ve spotted a hot babe, exactly how do you approach her and her friends?  It’s extremely rare that you will ever find a woman of beauty alone in a bar or club, so we refer to a group of women (or women and men) as a “set”.  So a 2-set consists of 2 people, a 4-set consists of 4 people.  The most important thing here if you want to pull women is to approach the set within 3 seconds of gaining sight of your target and start a conversation (open).  This is known as the “3 second rule” within the seduction community and is one of the most essential seduction techniques.

Why is this rule so vital?  First think about this from the woman’s perspective.  Imagine she notices you looking at her, you’re staring at her, checking her out, looking at her up and down, obviously in awe of her beauty, you take your time to gather up enough courage to walk over to her.  However, by now it’s already too late, don’t even bother approaching her, she’s seen you ogling her and has already assumed that you’re some kind of creep and pervert, desperate for her attention.  She won’t give you the time of day, trust me!

Now look at it from your own perspective, you’ve just spotted the woman of your dreams and you start thinking to yourself… wow she’s hot, she’s way out of my league, she’ll never fancy me, what shall I say to her, I bet she’s going to blow me out as soon as I open my mouth.  In other words, you end up psyching yourself out and don’t even end up approaching her in the first place, and even if you do, by now you’re a nervous wreck… this is what is referred to as “approach anxiety”, the fear of rejection which diminishes any chance of success, this is not how to pull girls!

Rejection - Pull Girls

Now imagine that you already have a few lines rehearsed so you know exactly what you’re going to say to her and her friends (the set), you see your ideal woman and approach her within 3 seconds and get the conversation rolling.  You’ve just portrayed massive confidence to the women (already gaining some female attraction) and you haven’t psyched yourself out in the process.  So exactly what do you say now that you have approached them?  I will reveal all in my next post on “openers” to help you in your quest to pull girls.